WHAT IS IT LIKE TO BE HER?

Meet Suzi. Her photo caught the attention of hundreds of men in the first 24 hours that it appeared on a popular dating website. The responses came fast and furious. Would you like to know what it is like to be an attractive woman?

  • Which approaches work a which don't?
  • How would you have approached her differently to cut through the clutter?
  • Do any/all the guys make any common mistakes?
  • What could you do to improve your approach
  • Read on, and be sure to notice how you're feeling as you read - positive/negative, interested/bored
  • In what ways do guys seek approval?
  • In what ways do guys give away their power/mystique?

All names/addresses have been changed or blocked to protect the lame. These are actual letters.

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HER PROFILE:

I'm that hot girl you saw at the club, or restaurant, or cafe, or just walking down the street but you were intimidated by my looks and afraid to say 'Hi.' Every guy I've dated has told me this. The truth is, I'm just a regular girl who enjoys company like anyone else. You don't need to run your game on me, just be real. I don't like guys who let themselves get pushed around. I like it when men are what they say they are. Be confident and down to earth, caring and sensitive. Be fit, and friendly, be tough but soft, be strong enough to stand up to me (even when I'm being a bitch), be willing to listen, and be the best.

RESPONSES:

Hiya Suzi!
Surprisingly for someone writing a reply to your profile/ad I liked your profile!! Who knew? Incredible right?..mm ok well perhaps not that stunning.. anyway I’m xxxxx, tall english guy... my profile tells everything about me in complete and accurate detail. So well, in fact, that you probably don’t really need to ever meet me (just kidding)..anyway if you don’t think I’m either an idiot or look like a toad it would be fab to talk.

Suzi
I don't live in your county I live north of the border in Canada Prince George, BC. and if you want the truth I am going to give you the truth. You may be the girl next door and you may be heart felt in what you say but I will tell you I have come accross alot of pretty woman like your self that would not throw me a life pusserver if I was drounding. A guy like me dreams of dating or getting married to the girl next door like your self . but in my life time I have never went out with anything as pretty as your self. think about it when was the last time you asked a guy out that was over wait or wore glasses. It is 2007why don't you ask someone out. pick some person like my self that you would never give a chance or a second look to. Lets face it I am to far away to go out with you, so choose someone their. I hope that I have not offened you in any way. But that is how beautiful woman like yourself have made me feel, call it what you want, but for a regular girl like yourself their is not much hope for me.

Hi Suzi
How are you? I have the same problem but with girls being intimidated by me and my(parents)looks. I'd love to hear more of your story. I hope all is well and have a fabulous day!

Suzi
How are you doing? My name is xxx. I am planning on moving to the Seattle area in the near future. I was hoping we could chat and see what happens, if anything friendship is a possiblity. If you would rather not, I understand. I hope you find what you are looking for.

Suzi
I am not sure if you got my first letter, if so, hopefully persistance pays off..
I am 36, good looking, good shape. Take a chance you wont regret it - I don't have any photos posted but I would be more then happy to send as many as you like... or, you can go to myspace to see pics if you want...view pics at: http://www.xxxxxx.com/12xxx037
Professionally I have been very lucky, I own an advertising agency and a film company, - and I hate dating, I rather just meet someone and focus on them, I am passionate, romantic... and I am very creative and not just at work : ) I am funny, outgoing and love to travel... hey you only live once. I would love to hear back from you... Dream as if you will live forever and live as if you will die today...
write to me at xxxx at y ah o or IM at xxxxx


Hey Suzi! Good thing i don't have to run my game, because i don't have one, So, how often do you transform into " The Bitch"? I once knew someone like that, I divorced her...

Hello Suzi, three words for you Brilliant, loyal and beautiful. Your words in your profile reflect sincerity and honesty. Will be nice to chat with sometime. Take good care of yourself, sorry I'm not a better looking. Have a nice day.

Suzi
I enjoyed your profile and would love to get to know you! What you said really struck home with me and I hope to have dinner with you soon!
(phone number)
P.S. This is my last day before my membership expires so it would be best to email me! Have a great day!

Good morning Ms. Suzi:
I appreciate a confident, independent woman who understands her strengths. As for myself, I am not easily intimidated by others. Of course, there's always respect, but hardly intimidation. The way I look at it, is that we all bring something unique to the table and should be respected/appreciated for that.
I look forward to receiving your reply. Good luck in your search. peace

Hi Suzi.. Would love to chat with you sometime, Let me know if you have an interest in me as well. Hope to hear from you soon cutie!!
You seem super!
More about me at myyyyyssssppppaaaaaccccceeeee
search - display name - xxxxx
chat with me on msn at xxx(DOT)xxxxxxx(AT)xxx(DOT)com
Hope YOU are for real and that you respond!


Hey,
Where should I start? I'm Sean, 24 years of age, I have black hair, brown eyes 195lbs and a great smile (so I've been told). This is the first time I have done something like this, so please bare with me! I have a great head on my shoulders, very easy to talk with and extremely down to earth... I Enjoy just about anything from Snowboarding to chilling on the couch being lazy with that special someone and more come find out!
I hope that you allow me the chance to sweep you off of your feet!
Take Care

Suzi
BITCHIN A 10 THATS GOT HER HEAD ON RIGHT
YOUR RARE

Suzi
Your a knock --out ! No dout.!! Love to say Hi and how are you.. I hope you find wha Youre looking for here. Take care !

Hey Suzi,
Your cute but I'm not the least intimidated. You seem like a down to earth lady to me. Hey what are you looking for in a date? Me I'm just havin g fun meeting ladies, nothing too serious. Hey if you would like to meet for coffee and see if we have chemistry let me know. I have a house in the Greenlake neighborhood.
Hugs,

Hello Suzi.
I'm the guy who is always smiles, but never says hello. I'm not intimadated i just respect peoples space, or at least that is what I tell myself.
A bit shy.

Suzi
Hey, I really enjoyed your profile! We seem to have similar personalities so if you're interested and would like to chat sometime, it'd be great to hear back from you!

Suzi
Wow, those are professional words from a women that obviously had her fair share of bad dates. I think we should talk and have a great conversation. If you're to afraid to throw the digits first, let me know. Talk to you later. Bye
Always,

Hi there!
Are you good playing tennis? I played yesterday and we are going to play thursday. Do you wanna come? I have 3 friends that play with me doubles. But I think that someone will not come next Thursday.

Hi There!
How's 2007 treating you so far?
What do you like to do for fun?
;-)
hell I might like it when your a bitch,,

Suzi
You are very beautifull
I liked your picture and the things you had in your profile. If you are interested in chatting let me know.: xxxx@xxxx.com
Hope to hear from you

Suzi
Yeah.... it's me again..... from what I see and have read you seem amazing to me..... I would love to hear back from you

Suzi, Hi
I like your profile.
If you are interested, Please tell me more about yourself, your hobbies and ask me any question that you may have.
My direct email address is (xxxx@xxxx.com)
Thanks

Suzi
well you are a good looking girl, it would be cool to chat sometime

Suzi Hi,
You're supercute. I need a new cute friend to play with too. We should hook up. If you wanna play you can reach me at xxxx@xxxxl.com. I hope to hear from you soon.

Suzi
Your not Hot at all!! Just kiddin! Your actually very pretty,Nice complextion, Good picture of you. Do you have any more? What the rest of you look like? Ever do any modeling or think about it. I could use a face such as yours. What instrument do you play. I love talented women! Any ways Had to compliment the look and say hello. Also let you know, I'm not intimidated at all. In fact I want to see more of you. If interested in trying out some or more modeling, Send me some full body shot pictures, and a couple more head shots. If you dont have any, I do photo shoots once a week. Let me know your thoughts.
bye 4 now

Suzi
nice not many chicks like u ur hot and got it going on

Suzi,
very interesting profile
drop me a hellll-lllo

Suzi
Hi there,
I like your profile but would like to see more of you. Do you have any other photos of yourself? Also, if there was a fire in your home what would you grab first?

Hello Suzi,
Just wanted to stop by and say Hello! Always looking to meet new people on here!
How is your week going? So far mine has been a crazy one!!! ;(
How is your New Years going so far? Off to a good start I hope!!
Mine has been pretty mellow! A lot of time watching/coaching sports :)
You play/watch any sports/activities?

How did you deal with all that lovely weather? lol Fun times playing in the snow!! And now it is so sunny :) haha I heard rumor that another storm is supposed to hit next month with snow!!
Well I hope all is going well for you! Hope you have a great week and look forward to chattin again soon,

Suzi
Hi, not sure what else to say but I figure it is a start.

Suzi
So maybe I'm not 26 but I've got other things to make up for that... I am as real as they come and am looking for somebody to be a true person back to me... You're right, you are hot, but you know what you want and what you don't and that is hot in and of itself. Besides, I'm 24 soon...

Suzi
Hi there!
Are you good playing tennis? I played yesterday and we are going to play thursday. Do you wanna come? I have 3 friends that play with me doubles. But I think that someone will not come next Thursday.

Suzi
I don’t normally do this, but you stood out. I have many leather bound books.

Suzi
You caught my eye, how do you like to be contacted?

Hi Suzi!
From your clear and up front description of who you're looking for, I'm certain I'd fit the role. As for 'being the best', you'll have to be the judge of that. However, I speak with confidence that I'm the best there is at being me.
I'm looking for a confident woman that draws inspiration from everything that life has to offer. Someone that can handle the good, the bad, the ugly, and the unknown with gusto, but isn't too stubborn to ask for help when the odds are overwhelming. I'd love to find someone that isn't intimidated or scared to break a sweat now and then. Balance is important too. Being able to recognize the innate beauty of silence or appreciate segments of time that don't induce a shot of adrenaline... it's all crucial. Humor with a streak of sarcasm is also highly valued, just submit a request to my pet polar bear for further clarification.
I'd love to hear more about who you are, and what you do. Truly.

Hello Suzi,
You seem very down to earth and open minded. I enjoyed reading your profile and would like to know more about you.
Let's chat sometime...

Suzi,
I liked your profile. Very straight forward and honest. Anyway my name is xxxx, I'm 26, I live in Seattle and I'm an Architect. I have a puppy at home that keeps me busy, a sailboat that I race out on the Sound, and I've been skiing a lot lately. Well there's a little about me what about you? Are you originally from Seattle? What do you do for work? Write me back or you can IM me and we can chat.

Hi Suzi,
I noticed that you are an artist and that you love the performing arts. I am not nearly as artistic as I wish, however, the arts are a significant part of my life. I'd like to know more about your musical/writer career. Do you care to share?

Suzi,
My name is xxxx. I just read your profile and you grabbed my attention. I really enjoyed what you had to say. Very cool, intelligent, down to earth, someone I'd definately be interested in getting to know. I'm new to this online dating. I really enjoyed what you had to say and I think we would have a lot in common. So if you're interested hit me back. I hope to hear from you.

hi Suzi
well i guess most people are intimidated by looks but looks will only get you in the door after that its up to you but you probably allready know that i too have had girls think i was either too good looking or not good looking enough to date its never a predictible thing all you can do is hope there is a shared attraction i have found this to be true anyhow goodluck!

Hi Suzi,
Hope this email finds you well. You're profile says that your occupation is musical/writer do you write plays/music? That's awesome must be a lot of fun. I know you're profile says you're wanting to date someone 26+ but I'm only 23? Nothing but a number right? haha jk. Well if you're willing to take a chance in getting to know more about me, send me an email. Have a stellar day!

Hello Suzi,
Would you like to join me for lunch or dinner? I reviewed your profile and liked what I saw! In the field of art what do you do?
(phone number)

Suzi
nice pic and profile! what date is your b day on? just curious mine is oct 18.....and dont worry about intemmidating me...lol although you are sexy...... hope 2 hear from you soon....

Hi Miss:
Good to meet you here, I just relocated to Seattle area, and eager to find a friend show me around and find out every fun places we can get.
I once had a club of tennis mates in Boston, I wish I can find more here, in Seattle.
I am Asian male, 32/5'8', and open and like social activities. Working inside the Microsoft camp, with a high paid position, I wish I can bring myself some attention here.
Email to xxxx@xxx.com would be very welcome!

Hi Suzi,
I did a search and your profile came back with a full match. So I looked at your profiles and it really stood out to me. You seem like an interesting girl who's motivated and knows what she wants, something that I really look for in a person. Sense of humor is also very important to me. I consider myself "real" as I hate games and drama so I thought I'd write you.
I'd love to hear more about you. Your profile says your profession is Artistic / Musical / Writer. What exactly do you do? What do you like to do in your free time?
Feel free to send me a note on personals or an email to xxxxxxxxx *at* yahoo.com (hmm... it won't let me put my addy normally).
Cheers,

Hi Suzi,
Actually I think I did come up and say "Hi" but you couldn't hear me over all the guys that were already there But maybe I can get your attention this way?
My e-mail address is:
xxxx * at * xxxxx * dot * net
Yahoo won't let me type the real symbols, but if you say it out loud, that's my e-mail address


Hi Suzi!
Wanna grab lunch or somethin? Or chat first to see if we click? xxxxx on yahoo messenger or xxxx@xxxx.com

Suzi
Ok no games ...We are looking for a very special friend.To become friends with and more.If all like each-other then the door would be open for much more.Think about it.Some-thing diffrent something new.Have a great day ............ps i wouldnt of wrote you ,,but your ad change my mind.......

Suzi
Wow...you are that girl I saw walking down the street a few days ago. I was going to come up and say hello, but I have a bit of a cold and I didn't want you to catch it. Boy am I lucky I found you on here because I've been thinking about you ever since.
Okay, seriously though...I'm just a regular guy with a nack for making people laugh. I'm a sports medicine physical therapist so I stay very active/fit (practice what you preach right). I believe that life shouldn't be taken too seriously, but there is a time to be serious. I don't think people should try to be what they aren't, and I'm attracted to confident, secure woman. What else would you care to know?

Suzi
You can fid me at xxxxx at yahoo I think your really hot!. I would love to meet you for coffee or lunch and then see where it goes. What do you think?

Hi Suzi
My name is xxx,i'm 31 single male with no kids,i live in everett and work for boeing as engineer.i moved from michigan few months ago.i recently graduated with masters in engineering. i'm very adventerous,love to camp,travel,been to many countries and love doing that.i love spending weekends in vancouver BC.its beautiful out there.
i love to cook,in my free time i do yoga and meditation.which is very relaxing.
if this all sounds interesting please drop me a line .

Suzi,
Good morning, hope you had a great weekend. What are you doing later this week? Would you like to do anything? Gotta go, enjoy your day, Shawn.

Suzi
your so hotttttt wish we could meet someday...ciao sweetie from xxxx

Suzi
i like your pictur. where are you located . have you met anyone on this site before. my name is xxxxx if your interested message me back

Hi Suzi,
How are you doing? Your profile looks like interesting. Like everybody my curiosity got me inside this website. It looks like fun. But there is something that is plesurable for me. The idea of taking a good wine or an excelent champagne having a great person with me listening the best Jazz/Blues or Rock 'n Roll. Doesn't matter if we don't know each other. If there is something that I am not is to be shy.
xxx

Suzi
Had to tell you, you have nice soft eye's

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