LETTERS AND THE LATERAL APPROACH (coming in under her radar)

Some letters this week ...

#1
"There's a girl I've known for a long time - there's always been a lot of
flirting going on between us. The other night we were out in a group together
and I offered to drive her home. We got to her place and spent like 3 hours
talking in my car, before she finally said goodnight and went inside. I knew
she was waiting for me to make a move but I totally chickened out plus the mood
just didn't seem right. Later that night she called me and told me she wished
she had someone to MAKE OUT WITH! What did I do wrong?" - R in Seattle

R - You're right about one thing - she WAS waiting for you to make a move,
dumbass. If the mood doesn't feel right, don't wait for it to become 'right.'
You need to CREATE that mood by leading. How do you lead things in that
direction? When there is a long pause in conversation (you know, that moment
when you start to KNOW that you're chickening out), look at her and hold your
gaze a little bit longer than a 'casual' glance. Then say "I'm trying really
hard not to kiss you." If she says "Why!?" Go ahead and do it. Part of why
you're having trouble with this is you're putting too much importance on this
moment and the whole interaction. Lighten it up. Don't be SO attached to the
outcome. And above all, don't wait so long (you said you knew her a long time)
- if you like a girl, don't wait until everything is perfect. Take risks, be
the man, experiment. - Kenan

#2
"I've been going to this dating agency. And for the most part they have been
blind dates setup for disaster. I've gone on 21 of these dates, and only one of
these dates turned out to be anything. Recently they have been trying to get me
reup with them. I've told them I'm not interested but they keep making phone
calls. The people they set you up with seem like normal people, but then I seem
to have a hard time getting any of the women to open up and talk to me. The one
who did is the one I'm going out with this weekend. Should I reup with it just
lunch or just tell them no for the final time?" - J from Kirkland

J - Dating agencies seem like a great way to get a lot of practice with numerous
different women. However they also eliminate/douse the one step of the mating
ritual that is critical in generating sparks. That critical step is the initial
meeting. Sometimes the part of your interaction that generates the most energy
is the initial contact - the way you boldly/flirtatiously initiated and
comfortably carried yourself and her through your first conversation. Often
times guys are afraid to approach a woman without even realizing that it is the
very courage it takes to comfortably approach is all it takes to win her over.
This is a long way of saying that if the interactions you are having with women
via the agency feel unwieldy, it may not be the women, but the fact that there
is something faulty about the method. Skip the agency for a while and get the
next 21 from coffee shops, libraries, supermarkets, restaurants. Try opinion
openers so you KNOW in advance who you can talk with. - Kenan

#3
"Regarding the FRIEND thing, is falling into the friend category ever useful, in
that it may get the girl to introduce her friends to you? Is she less likely to
do this is she's somewhat attracted to you herself, even when she has a
boyfriend already? - B"

B - Well, yes and no. It depends on what KIND of friend you've become. If she
considers you her friend who will be there and listen to all her complaints
about her boyfriend, and empathize with her like her girlfriends do, then NO.
But if you are relentlessly busting on her, and being a man around her, and if
she is introducing you to other women, then possibly yes. Try it - see what
happens. If you are looking to improve your dating skills, you most likely need
to start spending a lot more time around guys who are good with women than
women. Besides, the time you spent around her you could have spent somewhere
else getting some phone numbers.

A TIP:
The "Lateral" approach (coming in under her radar).
In his book "Think Like A Billionaire" Donald Trump says "If you want something,
don't let anyone know that you want it before you get it."

The same is true with women as well. If you are trying to 'get somewhere' with
them, your interaction may well go nowhere. Let go of your attachment to the
outcome of your interactions. Talk to women solely to enjoy them, their
feminine perspectives, and their appreciation for 'the moment' and not out of
your own need for validation or sex. Develop your own appreciation of women.

A great way to lighten up your approach is to never approach a woman directly.
If you don't quite have your internals state relaxed and comfortable yet, the
long walk up to her can reveal how much you want to talk to her and may put her
on the defensive, afraid that she is about to be hit upon.

Instead, If you see someone you want to talk to, walk past her to the bathroom,
to pick up something from the bar, the counter, or whatever else you can think
of. Then on your way back to your seat, just as you're passing by her, stop,
and turn your head to face them and open the conversation as if you just noticed
them. Relaxed body language, with your torso and legs remaining in the
direction you were traveling, and only your head facing the woman. This lateral
approach will take her by surprise and make her more open to your approach.

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